As we embark on a new year, it’s important to be aware of your sexual health and well-being. Sexual health can range from hygiene practices to STI prevention. It’s important to emphasize that everyone’s journey is different, whether you are sexually active or not. It is normal to choose not to engage in any sexual activity, just as it is normal to engage in sexual activity at whatever level feels right for you. There is no right or wrong choice. However, it’s critical to know how to prioritize your sexual health, which contributes to your overall health.
According to the Canadian Campus Wellbeing Survey taken by McMaster Students, many students don’t utilize any protective barriers during sexual activity, even though at least 50% of respondents reported being sexually active. Not to worry, the Student Wellness Centre (SWC) is here to help you prioritize your sexual health throughout the year.
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Before engaging in any sexual activity, it is critical that mutual consent is clearly established to create a safe and enjoyable experience for everyone involved. But what, exactly, is mutual consent, and why is it important?
Consent is a clear and voluntary agreement to participate in an activity. It is fluid or dynamic and is an ongoing conversation- meaning that it can be given and withdrawn at any time during the activity. Mutual consent is achieved when all parties involved continuously understand, respect, and accept each other’s boundaries, and when everyone feels safe and heard. Discussing boundaries, such as clothing, body, activity, and timing, is a key part of healthy consent.
In addition to verbal cues, it’s important to pay attention to non-verbal signs such as hesitation or discomfort. Affirmative statements and open communication help ensure that everyone involved is truly okay with the situation.
Ways to ask for consent without feeling awkward:
What factors may affect a person’s ability to consent?
To keep sex fun and pleasurable, there are ways to practice safer sex and reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or unplanned pregnancy.
STIs are infections transmitted through any type of sex or intimacy where bodies and bodily fluids come in contact.
Pregnancy could occur through penis-in-vagina sex or any sex where semen reaches the vagina. While some methods of contraception can reduce the likelihood of pregnancy, internal and external condoms are the only methods that can decrease the risk of unplanned pregnancy and STIs.
Contraception options can be placed into 4 different categories:
It’s important to know that each prevention method has varying rates of success. Check out the Sex & U website for help to determine which type of contraception is right for you, or talk with your doctor.
Taking charge of your sexual health is a vital part of overall well-being. At McMaster, students have access to a variety of services and supports to help make informed and confident decisions.
The SWC offers confidential, student-centred care. All services are covered by OHIP, UHIP, or student fees, and appointments can be made by phone.
Location: PGCLL 210 (Peter George Centre for Living and Learning) Website: wellness.mcmaster.ca Phone: 905-525-9140 ext. 27700
Appointments are private, inclusive, and trauma-informed.
Sexual health-related counselling services include:
McMaster also offers peer-led education and support through campus groups that create a comfortable and approachable environment for sexual health discussions.
SHEC is a student-run service focused on promoting sexual health and harm reduction through education and conversation.
You can get more information through their website: msumcmaster.ca/service/shec
The PCC is a peer-support space for 2SLGBTQIA+ students, providing an affirming environment for identity-based health needs, including sexual health.
You can get more information through their website: Pride Community Centre – MSU
Everyone’s sexual health journey is their own to discover.
Keep the above in mind
Stay safe
And remember the importance of consent and contraception for the prevention of STIs and unplanned pregnancies.
If you have questions, check out the links below or consider making an appointment at the SWC.
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